The Awsomeness of Cuddle Party... I need to tell the world!

[unbirthdaydiva]

A few weeks ago I had the fortune of coming across a cuddle party in this area and went. I would like to tell everyone here that if you have never been.... GO! It was a truly uplifting experience that restored my faith in humanity. The "high" I felt from cuddling was the best feeling. Like most people I was very skeptical of going dealing with a lot of rejection issues and feeling like eww what if I have to cuddle a creepy/gross person. The welcome circle that goes over all the rules to cuddle party made it so that within a half an hour not only did I feel comfortable cuddling with complete strangers, but they had us do exercises that helped us feel comfortable saying no, and more importantly recieving a no to a request! I didn't realize how personal I take thing and how hard that rejection was on me. At the time I was going through a lot of issues in that area and the experience helped me understand rejection as being many things that could be completely unrelated to me and what I was asking or offering. I only had one person say no but I have to say it felt really good... strange right? They helped me understand that you shouldn't ask a question that you couldn't take a no to. The whole process was a truly spiritual, awakinging, and wonderful experience that I can only hope all of you get to experience at least one time in our short time here on earth. I have gone to their web site [Only registered and activated users can see links. ] and gotten their rules for you all to read. It is absolutely amazing what can be accomplished when everyone is aware of the rules and knows that everyone will respect the rules. This is a great example of how communication clears confusion.

Cuddle Party Rules
Like the idea of Cuddle Party? Consider becoming a certified Cuddle Party Facilitator. The training and certification programs are consistently ranked among the best our participants have ever taken... and they know workshops! The Cuddle Party rules are tried and true, and there's a logic to them that goes deeper than you might think to create a safe, fun environment for people to connect. At a Cuddle Party event, the first 40 minutes or so includes an explanation of the rules that you can put to use everyday. Intrigued? Come to a Cuddle Party!

And with no further ado...

The Rules
WHAT TO WEAR: Pajamas - nothing too risqué. Think more comfy than sexy. (More drawstrings, less lace! No shorts.)

WHAT TO BRING: A pillow or stuffed animal if you like. Juice or sparkling cider is always welcome. Sorry, no liquor folks. Otherwise, just bring your smiling self.

STICK TO THE RULES:

Pajamas stay on the whole time.
You don't have to cuddle anyone at a Cuddle Party, ever.
You must ask permission and receive a verbal YES before you touch anyone. (Be as specific in your request as you can.)
If you're a yes, say YES. If you're a no, say NO.
If you're a maybe, say NO.
You are encouraged to change your mind anytime you want.
Respect your relationship agreements and communicate with your partner.
Get your Cuddle Lifeguard On Duty or Cuddle Caddy if you have a question or concern or need assistance with anything during the Cuddle Party.
Tears and laughter are both welcome.
Respect people's privacy when sharing about Cuddle Parties and do not gossip.
Arrive on time.
Be hygienically savvy.


I have been seriously thinking about hosting an event like this... What does everyone think? I feel like if all the world went to Cuddle Parties instead of bars on Friday nights the world would be a dramtically better place with far less anger, violence, and loneiness.

[Reid1745]

sounds o fun. someone throw a cuddle party!

[Rose_Fawx]

Thats a GREAT way to bring people together

[Peter Is Great]

No offense, but that sounds sooooooooo stupid.

[unbirthdaydiva]

You are entitled to your opinion... personally I found it to be a wonderful experience that I would hope all could find to be helpful. Sorry you didn't find it to be so... perhaps instead of wasting time putting out negative energy you could do something more positve in the world...

For those of you who were intersted I have spoken to one of their faciliators about doing a large party. We'll see how it goes and I will keep you posted!

Peace and Love!

[foxysteve]

Haha, wow, thats GREAT!

I got a friend who would LOVE to hear about that.

[Azzure]

Sounds cool but i'm not going to hug on no man's.

[Z0B0T]

oh my god, thats one of the cutest thing ive ever seen. I would totally go to cuddle party.....

They should have them after raves

How sweet would an afterparty-cuddle party be? like when everyones wiped and just wants to cuddle and chill....awwww

[Peter Is Great]

oh my god I am sooooooo trippin right now
everybodys so funny tommorow when Im no high is gonna be funny

[Peter Is Great]

Oh my god I'm so high I am so high I wanta eat like a milkyway candybar

[unbirthdaydiva]

Ladies and Gentleman,
Announcing a cuddle party in the Philadelphia area! Hope to see you all there!!!


Cuddle the Afternoon Away!
*This is a Media Friendly Event! *



Sunday March 4, 2007 from 3:00-6:30 pm
Doylestown, PA
Hosted by Maria Starr
Fee: $40 per person in advance $30 per person if you register with a
friend.

Edie Weinstein-Moser- Cuddle Party Facilitator, as well as: journalist, speaker, social worker, therapist, reiki master, massage practitioner, interfaith minister and creative consultant.


What is a Cuddle Party? A Cuddle Party is an innovative and unique workshop/social-event to give women and men better tools for setting powerful and graceful boundaries, building community, asking for what you want, and meeting people.

It's.
A place to connect with heart-centered, conscious people in a light-hearted, relaxing environment.
A setting in which you're respected for the whole of who you are. A structured, safe space to learn about boundaries, intimacy and affection.
A laboratory where you can experiment with what makes you feel comfortable, and what makes you feel good. Treat yourself by genuinely connecting with amazing men and women. Ask for exactly what you want without being afraid. Develop a deeper respect for yourself, your body, and your boundaries. Have fun sharing affectionate touch in an open-communication, no-expectation zone!
Bring pj's or yoga clothes to change into. Please bring a blanket and
pillow. Yummy snacks are included.

One important piece of information: Cuddle Party workshops start and end on time. There is a component of the workshop called The Welcome Circle that sets the stage for the flow of the rest of the afternoon.
Since part of the workshop is about communication and boundary setting, I am putting this out there now, so that all present will feel respected and there is no misunderstanding.

Give yourself an empowering experience, one that you can be truly proud of! [Only registered and activated users can see links. ] Call Edie at 215-249-9190 or 215-738-8668 with any questions.
[Only registered and activated users can see links. ]

*Members of the media will be attending this event

[Rose_Fawx]

Originally Posted by unbirthdaydiva

Ladies and Gentleman,
Announcing a cuddle party in the Philadelphia area! Hope to see you all there!!!


Cuddle the Afternoon Away!
*This is a Media Friendly Event! *



Sunday March 4, 2007 from 3:00-6:30 pm
Doylestown, PA
Hosted by Maria Starr
Fee: $40 per person in advance $30 per person if you register with a
friend.

Edie Weinstein-Moser- Cuddle Party Facilitator, as well as: journalist, speaker, social worker, therapist, reiki master, massage practitioner, interfaith minister and creative consultant.


What is a Cuddle Party? A Cuddle Party is an innovative and unique workshop/social-event to give women and men better tools for setting powerful and graceful boundaries, building community, asking for what you want, and meeting people.

It's.
A place to connect with heart-centered, conscious people in a light-hearted, relaxing environment.
A setting in which you're respected for the whole of who you are. A structured, safe space to learn about boundaries, intimacy and affection.
A laboratory where you can experiment with what makes you feel comfortable, and what makes you feel good. Treat yourself by genuinely connecting with amazing men and women. Ask for exactly what you want without being afraid. Develop a deeper respect for yourself, your body, and your boundaries. Have fun sharing affectionate touch in an open-communication, no-expectation zone!
Bring pj's or yoga clothes to change into. Please bring a blanket and
pillow. Yummy snacks are included.

One important piece of information: Cuddle Party workshops start and end on time. There is a component of the workshop called The Welcome Circle that sets the stage for the flow of the rest of the afternoon.
Since part of the workshop is about communication and boundary setting, I am putting this out there now, so that all present will feel respected and there is no misunderstanding.

Give yourself an empowering experience, one that you can be truly proud of! [Only registered and activated users can see links. ] Call Edie at 215-249-9190 or 215-738-8668 with any questions.
[Only registered and activated users can see links. ]

*Members of the media will be attending this event

:O
thats a bit pricey for me... But then again, I'd have to drive for like an hour to get there in the first place XC