Help - my 13 yr old daughter is missing

[StoNy]

Glad to hear you found her. now you both need to work together to work out your problems...

Originally Posted by Juno

Hold on there BadDad, you're not off the hook so easily.

You don't deserve to have children and your daughter doesn't deserve to have a family, so just send her to a foster farm, er orphanage. That'll set her straight.

I'm not saying hes not a bad dad or what ever. But I used to live at a foster farm as you call it. And No that will not set her straight at all. If anything that makes peoples lives worse then they were before. Sometimes it might help but It does seem to me that this guy does care about her. Really the only people that benefit from foster homes are the ones that come from parents that don't care about their kids at all. The ones that beat them or are too busy being drugged up. But having her leave a family that cares for her won't solve anything.

[Juno]

Originally Posted by StoNy

f anything that makes peoples lives worse then they were before.

Really the only people that benefit from foster homes are the ones that come from parents that don't care about their kids at all.

Dude, that's why she should be put in an orphanage or foster home.

And the Foster Farm joke is a little joke in my family.

[StoNy]

Originally Posted by Juno

Dude, that's why she should be put in an orphanage or foster home.

And the Foster Farm joke is a little joke in my family.

Yeah you are probably right. If this guy really cared he would have gone looking for her more actively. But I'm not here to judge him or anyone.
Oh didn't know it was a joke. Lucky for me my parents were the ones taking care of some of the worst kids. The cops would bring some in chains and then take them off in the front yard. I find it odd that they feel they needed chains but yet once they get dropped off they don't. Didn't really feel safe. But the last kid we had. We were pretty good friends before he left to a orphanage in sac.

[miss puff]

Originally Posted by bshieh

WORD! lol there is a very thick line between discipline and abuse. VERY VERY thick. and my parents were never afraid to stomping all over it. (something that i'm actually pretty thankful for)

anyways, good luck with your kid... i'll keep an eye out for her this weekend!

Yo my parents beat me, I turned violent and got back at my mom at age 15 ( not good). I was a pain, for my mum, I ended up getting kicked out her house and forced to live with my sister and my sis is like a drill sergent and I found ways of getting away with things. Eventually i got caught up and it bit me in the ass. Now I live with my dad and he's got me on check.

For Indigo, you need to keep a leash on your child, my dad is the best bs monitor in the world, I cannot do a thing, w/out him finding out. I feel for you, but you must of seen it coming. That kind of behavior is hard to overlook.

Originally Posted by st_indigo

Please, if you EVER see her at a party, ever again, THROW HER ASS OUT. Make her go home, or at least make her leave.

Are you serious...I'm not even gonna bother.

[Incoherent]

hehe imagine what shell be like when shes 18....all i can say is...choo choo......

[KatSlave]

Originally Posted by Bone

first of all you failed to mention your her stepdad, right?

Your kidding right? Just because he is her step father doesn't make the situation any different, it's just great to see a parent actively worrying and searching for their child. I grew up with a family that basically doesn't care about the words "Step, in law, surrogate, adoptive, and half" titles in the family, if you are part of the family then you are fully apart of it and there are no exceptions.

I'm not trying to attack you or anything, I just get a bit upset when I see a sentence that implies something horrible and shouldn't be there.

[Spidey]

Military School Was good for discipline. made new friends and went to parties on weekend leaves Was the best thing my Mother did for me and am Now greatful for it.....wasn't at the time.


Good to hear you found your daughter.

[Jellybean]

last night.

[Asphyxia]

just awesome...rofl

[Pineapple]

Now I'm glad I didn't go to Homebass, I would've been pissed to see her there.
:/

[BCxBABE]

I swear man, some people should NOT have fucking kids. If their kid is running away like this, the parents must be fucked up in their own right. I know a lot of people who if they ever pulled this shit or tried to, they'd be sent away to boarding school or those kids boot camps. Not only that but their parents wouldn't be sitting at a computer trying to contact people and post things....most parents would be stopped in their tracks and traveling and looking.

I wouldn't be surprised if this guy came back on 6 months from now posting how he can't find his daughter again. This time you'll probably see a pic of her knocked up.

The parents need to do everyone a favor and lock their kid up, discipline her ass, and put her ass on fucking birth control. Or better yet, just have her goddamn tubes tied.

Originally Posted by st_indigo

So between posting on message boards (Bayraves, and this one), following the trail she left with messages on Myspace, and then calling EVERYONE she had phone numbers for, I managed to track her down.

Her friends insisted she go home once they found out how old she is, and that she had taken off from without permission. Nobody wanted to be responsible for her, of course.

She is now at her grandmother's house in LA. As the first part of her punishment, I think i'm going to make her take Greyhound back the Bay Area. That will give her some time to think.

Please, if you EVER see her at a party, ever again, THROW HER ASS OUT. Make her go home, or at least make her leave.

If nothing else comes of this, I hope promoters seriously reconsider the drawbacks of having all-ages events. This could have ended very badly, but thankfully it didn't.

Thanks to all of you who helped, and a big no-thanks for the snide comments and uninformed parenting advice from the rest of you fucks. Some day, most of you will have kids, then perhaps you will understand. Hopefully you will never have to deal with a situation like this.

Peace,
Philip

[Will Smith]

I was going to try to come up with a funny comment to this... but damn.

I sure hope this kid is found.

stupidness