Help - my 13 yr old daughter is missing

[icarus]

Glad to here she's safe!!!!!! But...

Originally Posted by st_indigo

If nothing else comes of this, I hope promoters seriously reconsider the drawbacks of having all-ages events. This could have ended very badly, but thankfully it didn't.

I am all for all aged parties, and they're not the reason why this disaster occurred, only the context in which it took place.

[word]

im glad that you found her.

[lazer]

Originally Posted by icarus

I am all for all aged parties, and they're not the reason why this disaster occurred, only the context in which it took place.

since his kid is underage, he can take action against the promoter to any party his daughter goes to for risking her life.

the parties are ILLEGAL, and she (even if she was let out by them willingly), left without them knowing.(that's what they'll tell the judge)

he could break a few promoters with that.

[ParmeJan]

Originally Posted by *Bonkers<3*

i really thing that the girl is gonna come back.
and the parents should beat the living shit out of her.
lol

but other then that
here's the love for the parents
LOVE!

you think beating the living shit out of her will help?

[influx]

Originally Posted by ParmeJan

you think beating the living shit out of her will help?

probably, thats whats wrong with all these kids today. there are no boundries. My mom whipped my ass all the time and I respect her for it. Theres a difference between a belt to the rear and a punch to the grill lol. Kids get off easy these days, just need some old school black moms to watch em for a few months. Come back like they just got out of the marines lol

[seanscar]

Ah, glad you found her. Let's not have that happen again =[.

[fortknoxriot]

The girl is just embarassing.

[*Bonkers<3*]

Originally Posted by ParmeJan

you think beating the living shit out of her will help?

lol
for her stupidity....yes

GLAD YOU FOUND HER STUPID ASS!

dont worry if i ever see her at any event, i will personally kick her out.

[Juno]

Hold on there BadDad, you're not off the hook so easily.

You don't deserve to have children and your daughter doesn't deserve to have a family, so just send her to a foster farm, er orphanage. That'll set her straight.

[cakrash]

Originally Posted by st_indigo

So between posting on message boards (Bayraves, and this one), following the trail she left with messages on Myspace, and then calling EVERYONE she had phone numbers for, I managed to track her down.

Her friends insisted she go home once they found out how old she is, and that she had taken off from without permission. Nobody wanted to be responsible for her, of course.

She is now at her grandmother's house in LA. As the first part of her punishment, I think i'm going to make her take Greyhound back the Bay Area. That will give her some time to think.

Please, if you EVER see her at a party, ever again, THROW HER ASS OUT. Make her go home, or at least make her leave.

If nothing else comes of this, I hope promoters seriously reconsider the drawbacks of having all-ages events. This could have ended very badly, but thankfully it didn't.

Thanks to all of you who helped, and a big no-thanks for the snide comments and uninformed parenting advice from the rest of you fucks. Some day, most of you will have kids, then perhaps you will understand. Hopefully you will never have to deal with a situation like this.

Peace,
Philip

Phil, do yourself a favor and put her on a diet. If you don't agree with my educated opinion, might as well listen to some common sense. And if you find a copy of party monster in her backpack, might wanna throw that away too.


DANCE 4 LIFE FTW!!!!!!

[Bone]

Originally Posted by st_indigo

So between posting on message boards (Bayraves, and this one), following the trail she left with messages on Myspace, and then calling EVERYONE she had phone numbers for, I managed to track her down.

Her friends insisted she go home once they found out how old she is, and that she had taken off from without permission. Nobody wanted to be responsible for her, of course.

She is now at her grandmother's house in LA. As the first part of her punishment, I think i'm going to make her take Greyhound back the Bay Area. That will give her some time to think.

Please, if you EVER see her at a party, ever again, THROW HER ASS OUT. Make her go home, or at least make her leave.

If nothing else comes of this, I hope promoters seriously reconsider the drawbacks of having all-ages events. This could have ended very badly, but thankfully it didn't.

Thanks to all of you who helped, and a big no-thanks for the snide comments and uninformed parenting advice from the rest of you fucks. Some day, most of you will have kids, then perhaps you will understand. Hopefully you will never have to deal with a situation like this.

Peace,
Philip

first of all you failed to mention your her stepdad, right?

anyways, do you really think that punishing her will help, whats happened happened you can't change it.

also, you have to think about how you were at her age, unless you were a choir boy or anything like that you may have done thing like she did.

also asking promoters to throw her out of a party will make her resent you even more, what you don't realize is the anger and tension she has built up inside and the way that she lets it out is by going with her friends to parties and dance a good part of the frustration out.

so instead of punishing her for what happened, think about what BOTH OF YOU can do so that it won't happen.

[Juno]

Originally Posted by Bone

so instead of punishing her for what happened, think about what BOTH OF YOU can do so that it won't happen.

Oh, you mean like denouncing their relationship? That's a good start.