something i've noticed about ravers

[Gabber_CoUrAgE]

Originally Posted by Idi0tb0x

Ahh the tests...you know, if you take enough of them and they can't nail you down to "what's WRONG" with you, they get really frustrated! Usually they can't figure you out if you're smarter than the tests.

cause they automaticaly think that the test knows all!!! i only had to take it once, never went to a guidance counselor... i went to anger manage ment classes, which did nothing... and i would keep everything inside me... it wasnt until a couple of weeks ago talking to my friends about my shit that i keep inside me that maid it feel beeter!!!.... so the best thing for me, and maybe for everyone (i dont know people are different) is talk to some one who is close to you. for me is my friends....cause my family is all sorts of messed up!!! and you know what talking to my friends help me alot!!! not a guidance counselor or a theripst... they never help me cause they never really know my as close as my friends do so yha..... chilly cheese fries!!!

[redeuphoria]

and to me this makes total sense, and explains why raves are a place where people can find acceptance, because (nearly) everyone comes from a similar background to them... and that's why it's a lot easier for us than most to find unity. because we've been dealt more shit in our lives, we know what it's like to feel unaccepted and we don't want to put others through it, too. raves are truly a haven for the people who feel like they haven't found a place. as long as you treat others nicely, people will usually treat you nicely back.

This is true. Raves are happy places but there's always kind of an undertone that has to do with those of us who go. Especially kids who go to every single rave, and really get fucked up... me, I don't feel the NEED to do these things, and I didn't have a traumatic childhood but I have always felt that I didn't belong and I've met a lot of mean, sucky people. But I do agree that people are very accepting and that's what I love about the atmosphere.

[ChillHeartsYou]

I completely agree. What made me fall in love with this scene, although I really do enjoy my EDM, is it's people. I didn't have a loving childhood by any means, and whats wonderful about the rave scene is that the people have not let themselves become jaded over by their pasts. Most everyone has experienced the crevases of live and still hold abundant hope for the future. We all can go and believe life is pretty durn good.
Plus I am a sympathetic sucker for "sob stories." Through all that I have learned I feel I have gained some wisdom I can pass on to others going through similar times.
Rave on.

[Kurlie]

Originally Posted by Gabber_CoUrAgE

cause they automaticaly think that the test knows all!!! i only had to take it once, never went to a guidance counselor... i went to anger manage ment classes, which did nothing... and i would keep everything inside me... it wasnt until a couple of weeks ago talking to my friends about my shit that i keep inside me that maid it feel beeter!!!.... so the best thing for me, and maybe for everyone (i dont know people are different) is talk to some one who is close to you. for me is my friends....cause my family is all sorts of messed up!!! and you know what talking to my friends help me alot!!! not a guidance counselor or a theripst... they never help me cause they never really know my as close as my friends do so yha..... chilly cheese fries!!!

Yeah man, seriously. It was good to hear you talk about your problems. And it was good for me to get out all that stuff about me being crazy and my blackouts and shit. I'm glad you feel comfortable enough to talk about your dad with me, and I'm glad I'm confortable enough with you to talk about my shit.

It was a good day, a great day, I'd say.
Love ya, Alex.

Er. Courage.

[lilbluesprite44]

Originally Posted by Idi0tb0x

I made the guidance counselor cry when I broke it down to her how fucked up it was for her "I took a psych class in college" ass to try to fix herself by toying with the futures of children.

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that is very true!!! I was suspended from school for 2 weeks for saying that!!!

[Gabber_CoUrAgE]

Originally Posted by Kurlie

Yeah man, seriously. It was good to hear you talk about your problems. And it was good for me to get out all that stuff about me being crazy and my blackouts and shit. I'm glad you feel comfortable enough to talk about your dad with me, and I'm glad I'm confortable enough with you to talk about my shit.

It was a good day, a great day, I'd say.
Love ya, Alex.

Er. Courage.

hahaha yha it was bro!!! awww this is like the weirdest thred i have ever seen on here, i would have never thought something like this would be on this kind of plur website...hahahaha, but talking is GOOD!!!