Non Ravers at Raves

[DizzyDoll]

Originally Posted by Jetix

I see what your saying but I really dont think people Need drugs to be Social. Anybody should be able to attend to a party and have fun

i deffinatly agree with that, i'm social so it's easier to say myself but i'm also kinda new to the rave scene and have been called a none-raver. even at that, i don't drug. i think these ppl that we r talking about need to be at raves so it also reminds us what we can be, or how we were. it makes me feel better knowing i'm not a girl ass touching thug

[NeoBeat]

Originally Posted by DreamCatcher

I say if they're negative they need to be here even more. It might mess up a wee bit of our times every now and then, but think of the chance to turn around we would be giving them.

All I'm saying is that true PLUR n shit isn't just about hugging people who want to hug you. It's about helpin' out people who can't see why you would want to hug them.



I'm getin WAY too cheesy,but I hadta say it. Peace.

WOW you are right! Great point! For the most part that is very true. Naturally as with any bell curve, there are some negs that will be destructive no matter what...

[DreamCatcher]

too true. There is an old quote:

"When an opponent comes forward, move in and greet him; if he wants to pull back, send him on his way. "

you gotta know how to feel people out and how to realize that theres not much of a chance of them livening up, and how to move on when you do realize this.

Good point NeoB

[DizzyDoll]

i say keep PLUR going and don't judge ppl on their first time out, look u cant judge a book by it's cover, and so u cant always tell if they're jerks or not, and if they are, just correct them and generally they fall quiet. u only learn from the experiences where u take action, otherwise, sit down and shut up. lol, jk

[The Joker]

Can't be a "raver" until you go to your first party. Everyone's gotta start somewhere.

[Juleswants2dance]

Originally Posted by The Joker

Can't be a "raver" until you go to your first party. Everyone's gotta start somewhere.

Well said, dude.

[NeoBeat]

Originally Posted by DreamCatcher

too true. There is an old quote:

"When an opponent comes forward, move in and greet him; if he wants to pull back, send him on his way. "

you gotta know how to feel people out and how to realize that theres not much of a chance of them livening up, and how to move on when you do realize this.

Good point NeoB

Another good point. Great perspective. Thanks! (and it is never cheesy to say what's r3al).

Originally Posted by DizzyDoll

i say keep PLUR going and don't judge ppl on their first time out, look u cant judge a book by it's cover, and so u cant always tell if they're jerks or not, and if they are, just correct them and generally they fall quiet. u only learn from the experiences where u take action, otherwise, sit down and shut up. lol, jk

True Enough!!!

[germe246]

haha i just feel that the scenes music is becomin more ghetto and not trance or techno like iono just hating how the rooms are gettin split dnb and breaks then all other i dn't like it feel its there to bring the gangstas in but tahts me i feel its more ghetto not the non raver vs. raver

[DizzyDoll]

Originally Posted by germe246

haha i just feel that the scenes music is becomin more ghetto and not trance or techno like iono just hating how the rooms are gettin split dnb and breaks then all other i dn't like it feel its there to bring the gangstas in but tahts me i feel its more ghetto not the non raver vs. raver

ok i do half-way agree with that.......sorta *confused look*

[germe246]

Originally Posted by DizzyDoll

ok i do half-way agree with that.......sorta *confused look*

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i agree with that i just re read what i wrote i am like ??? where did i learn how to write it is really quite sad hahah so basically just point and laugh at me

[DizzyDoll]

Originally Posted by germe246

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i agree with that i just re read what i wrote i am like ??? where did i learn how to write it is really quite sad hahah so basically just point and laugh at me

nah i'd rather enforce the PLUR and share some hugz we can point and laugh at u later

[Z0B0T]

I think if "non-ravers" are coming to raves, then it is just making the scene grow bigger and stronger, i see it as a positive thing. i mean if they are being jerks and stuff it is our duty to show them plur and help them be a better person.

Also, i dont think going to a couple raves or being at raves makes you a raver, because a lot of kids dont actually go to the raves to.....rave, if that makes sense. This is a really shitty example, but i have gone bowling multiple times, but i dont call myself a bowler.... Being a raver isn't about going to parties occassionally or even all the time, it more about a desire and need to be at the parties with plur and music and people you love.

I think that made sense