My 420 weekend dilemma....

[nancy3102]

okay so i need you guys help in deciding what to do..or at least some feedback.... so im part of this group on campus, and like most of the organizations we are supposed to go on a retreat..but its this weekend, we leave friday at 5pm and dont come back till sunday, the retreat is supposedly as I have been informed in some hotel in SF...were just going to be together all day long and listen to speakers and then try to bond...to begin with nothing against the people in this org but i just dont click with any of them, their all cool people, but i dont relate to any of them, why am i part of this group then you may ask...well its because its a good cause, im all up for helping the children! But the thing is fri night im supposed to hang out with some friends...and sat night i have the opportunity to go to spring fling!!

so do i flake out on my group..and if i do what do i tell them? keep in mind we were told about this retreat a month or so ago...but due to my decreased memory skills i completely forgot...

what do i do?

keep in mind that im a full time student and i work over 15 hours a week....so really my weekends are my time to destress and have fun!

[DreamCatcher]

If you dont like the people in the organization... why are you in it? Maybe I'm just bein a lil bitch.

Whatever you do, do it like the crazy ass you are. We believe in you.

[Coniption D]

Hmm are you actually going to be helping children during this weekend retreat or is this just a pure bonding trip?

It sounds like that you don't really care to bond with these people more than you already have so if you are not actually helping children this weekend I say...fuck em'.

As far as excuses go no one can argue with a family emergency! Just say your aunt is in the hospital (if they ask) that way when you see them again you can say she is doing better.

[nancy3102]

this weekend is strictly bonding and learning time...no actual children involved...i seem to be leaning towards the fuck em ideology as well...but i dont like lying! iono...

[rafe]

Did you made a commitment for attendance?

[Conniption]

It's not a lie if you believe it's the truth.

Besides...you do the good stuff for the children do somthing for yourself! (Good god I'm evil)

[shitsngiggles]

i. don't. care.


but if you choose raving over your other real life commitments, that should really say something to you.

[nancy3102]

= ( ...i got so many different responses from everyone....but i've chosen to be the responsible individual i should be and go to the retreat and try to make the best of it, i mean when i joined this organization i knew there would be sacrifices and lengthy time commitments to be made. And im a horrible liar so there really wont be no way i could lie and make it seem plausible.

oh well. there will be Lift 2 which is right after finals...something to look forward too