Close Dancers

[Derly]

Grinding is only alright when the girl wants to also. I find it provocative, but I think cuddling is more sexual. Whenever I've cuddled it was always with some stranger getting a lightshow. Somehow our hands just go exploring, and I walk away with little more than a lightshow. I've never gone and just sat down next to some random girl and done this though, I have the feeling that'd come off really creepy. Any time that happened I was sitting there first and some nice girl decides to join me and we have some fun.

[RickXOR]

I personally hate when guys do that.

Not grinding in particular, just when they get up to some random girl and start doing it. ESPECIALLY if they do it right behind her, so she doesn't even notice..

If you're gonna go up to a random girl, at LEAST be in front so she knows.. Those guys who sneak up are not only assholes but cowardly assholes at that.

Now as to the actual subject of grinding, I enjoy it in small doses. I'll grind with girls I go with, or girls I know, or girls who come up to me and want to. But after a little bit, I just need to get my space and dance.

[Mimick]

stand in the corner of the dance floor and hump the air

[800m]

Hmm, yeah, guys should definitely be gentlemanly about it. I don't do much grinding, I prefer just dancing retardly like I always do . Although, if you wanna grind with me, I won't stop you

[four leaf]

although i do like grinding with friends of mine and such, it is much too much an often occurance that guys will try to sneak up on me and dance behind me.
i usually will try to step away from them and hope they get the hint, but more often than not they dont. at which point i'll usually turn around, shake my head and walk away.

guys, if a girl sees you and eyes you, or more obviously, waves, it's a blatent invitation. otherwise do us all a favor and give us our space.

i like dancing by myself the majority of the time anyways

[Klover]

RL is such a more civilized community than the raving world as a whole.


btw, hi juiceboxx!

[{mac} the girl]

Originally Posted by Klover

i only try that shit with good friends, and they know im joking.

i noticed that only grinding with certain guys wrks. some guys your grinding and there grinding just clashes and feels awkward.........

Originally Posted by RickXOR

Now as to the actual subject of grinding, I enjoy it in small doses. I'll grind with girls I go with, or girls I know, or girls who come up to me and want to. But after a little bit, I just need to get my space and dance.

rick you should have just said "i grind with all girls but after a little bit...." haha

i tend to...not grind. but if u ever see me dancing you can kind of guess why. grinding makes me feel constricted (again...if you see me dance its obvious why) its fun sometimes tho. but like...if theyre too tall it doesnt wrk. or if theyre too short thats just awkward. i think ive like "grinded" with like one guy where it actually wrkd. that was at ispin2. but like...not really my thing. i think once i attempted to with klover (haha see above) grinding is just like...not my dance. even hella fucked up. im too....everywhere. i blame the adhd.

[Klover]

Originally Posted by {mac} the girl

i noticed that only grinding with certain guys wrks. some guys your grinding and there grinding just clashes and feels awkward.........



rick you should have just said "i grind with all girls but after a little bit...." haha

i tend to...not grind. but if u ever see me dancing you can kind of guess why. grinding makes me feel constricted (again...if you see me dance its obvious why) its fun sometimes tho. but like...if theyre too tall it doesnt wrk. or if theyre too short thats just awkward. i think ive like "grinded" with like one guy where it actually wrkd. that was at ispin2. but like...not really my thing. i think once i attempted to with klover (haha see above) grinding is just like...not my dance. even hella fucked up. im too....everywhere. i blame the adhd.

I just blame hardcore/trance/HHC for not being good grinding music.

put on some late nineties/early 2k hip hop and bar mitzvah music....oh boy.

thats where i learned how to dance...bar/bat mitzvahs. shame i rarely dance to hip hop anymore....its quite the different style for my body.

but then again...thats why i LOVE EDM...its a different style.

[{mac} the girl]

Originally Posted by Klover

I just blame hardcore/trance/HHC for not being good grinding music.

put on some late nineties/early 2k hip hop and bar mitzvah music....oh boy.

thats where i learned how to dance...bar/bat mitzvahs. shame i rarely dance to hip hop anymore....its quite the different style for my body.

but then again...thats why i LOVE EDM...its a different style.

anonymous (7:54:55 PM): i could grind to miss mary mack

[heymonster]

Originally Posted by {mac} the girl

anonymous (7:54:55 PM): i could grind to miss mary mack

miss mary mack
mack
mack
you got sweet back
back
back




but furreal, who raised these guys that thinks it's cool to rub their b.o. sweat all up in a girl's grill?
i feel like it's a gentleman's duty to gaurd any lady they're with from unwanted advances, you gotta have the "that's my girlfriend" swipe and pull on hand at all times

[Drifter]

I don't grind at raves. It used to be the only way I knew how to "dance" before I started raving. I don't even want to do it anymore, it just doesn't really have much of an appeal.

It's happened when Rick was there. I'll start talking with some girls and one will start to try and grind with me, I may do it for a minute but look at Rick and just laugh. I'll just back away a bit or turn her around and dance how I normally do.

For me dancing with a girl does not necessarily involve any contact. You are just dancing in closer proximity to each other. Grooving off each other's groove. Mac knows what I'm talking about! (HTID on a plurplane btw.)

-Drifter

[RickXOR]

Originally Posted by Drifter

I don't grind at raves. It used to be the only way I knew how to "dance" before I started raving. I don't even want to do it anymore, it just doesn't really have much of an appeal.

It's happened when Rick was there. I'll start talking with some girls and one will start to try and grind with me, I may do it for a minute but look at Rick and just laugh. I'll just back away a bit or turn her around and dance how I normally do.

For me dancing with a girl does not necessarily involve any contact. You are just dancing in closer proximity to each other. Grooving off each other's groove. Mac knows what I'm talking about! (HTID on a plurplane btw.)

-Drifter

DUDE next time that shit happens we should manwich her and proceed to high five eachother.

And someone needs to take a picture.