imo, it's necessary to judge people. it is the only way to discern between people... you go to a job interview and they judge you- if you're not fit for the job, obviously you can't work there. you might be the hardest worker around, the most comitted and most loyal, but shit, if you don't know what you're doing, they still can't hire you. you might be a god damned genius, but if you don't have what they're looking for... then sucks to be you.
you become friends with a bunch of people, but then one day, they all do something you HIGHLY disapprove of. something you just can't respect. do you "not judge" and forget about it? how can you? could you stay friends with them even if every single thing they did, caused you to groan and sigh inwardly?
if you don't judge people you end up with 6 billion friends.
but you fucking hate all but a few hundred.
HOW you judge someone and what you do about it afterwards are so important. sometimes why someone does something is irrelevant. it doesnt matter why he did it to you. just the fact that he did it. he may have had the greatest reason in the world, and if it really matters to you, i urge you to discover it. but most of the time someone does something you dislike, it's your 'fault' you dislike it.
i don't know. i can't seem to put my thoughts into words right now. i will repost & edit as soon as i can.
what i do know is this:
one of the things i hate most about myself, and have been trying to change for the longest time, is...
the first thing i notice when i meet a person, look at a person, is the color of their skin. i mean i guess, it's okay, because i try my best not to discriminate against them with this as a basis, but it still pisses me off. when i see a person, i should see a person. not a black person, a white person, or a w/e person.
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Originally Posted by Antranik
Like, oh he's on his cell phone, fucking idiot (as if you never used your phone while driving), or oh he looks like he's 16, that explains it, or oh look he's asian, fucking asians can't drive.
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true story.