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Originally Posted by Klover
i only try that shit with good friends, and they know im joking.
i enter the rave, the last thing on my mind is hitting on a girl.
now...getting to know a girl better? talking with her one on one in a quiet setting? maybe making out after we talk?
thats what fukin makes me  and it RARELY happens....because i'm too distracted by the music.
i have a list of crushes in my head though  |
grinding with a girl isn't hitting on her....it's dancing with her. I think it's a beautiful thing when two people are dancing with each other at a rave. it's almost like they have become a single entity joined TOGETHER by the MUSIC.
Now this isn't directed towards you, but towards everyone as more of a critical thinking question. Is it not ironic for someone to love cuddling, but then be completely against grinding? Now don't get my confused here, I'm not saying that if a person loves cuddling they should love grinding as well, i'm saying that they should not judge the people who do chose to do so (which im sure none of my RL peeps do)
That being said, I too think it is creepy as hell if a guy just comes up behind you tries to be all up on you. that is your personal space. The only way someone can enter it is if they are invited, or if they invite you into their personal space and you accept their invitation. Since I will be going to POP with couple some first timers that are also girls, I know im gonna be protecting them from all the creepers either by dancing with them (
) or the traditional manly way (intimidation)