haha, this is kind of a female-oriented thread, but i really wanna hear what guys have to say about this too...
i also think it's good to talk about this before pop...
does anyone else just feel gross when you're at a rave and some dude just comes up and starts juking with you? and i'm aware that you guys don't use the word juke here, so here's the least-ignorant sounding definition compliments of urban dictionary:
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4. juke
Chicago style of dance. A form of grinding on the dance floor. Most often perform to Chicago-style house music
"Everybody get yo juke on!"
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the only correction i would make is that it's not only done in chicago. anyway, i'm fine with a little hugging and swaying and whatever, but juking is annoying especially if your roll has made you hypersensitive. so i'm wondering: do guys not know that? is it just an honest mistake and you don't know that you're invading someone's personal space? or is this just a thing that creepers do intentionally with complete disregard to their dance partner's feelings?
because depending on which one it is, i might drastically change the way i react to it.
and please don't say some girls are asking for it because of the way they dress or dance. it's a rave, it gets hot. if guys can take off their shirts then girls should be able to dance in a bra or bikini top. there's a way to approach women, whether they be ptots, ass-shakers or otherwise and grabbing them from behind and humping them is not the right way.
so let's hear it.