First thing, plur is dead...it was a novel thought but around here...well what people say and do are two different things. *shrug* Just happens.
Secondly, thanks for pointing over to my site

Tho I haven't been updating events for Dallas in awhile. Just too many to keep track of and no ones helping

Lil daunting. But when things are updated, its def the place to look for things going on.
since you're a dallas native, I'd suggest spending more time on DallasDanceMusic.com
RL is pretty dead as far as the messageboards go...
teknosounds.com (austin, SA, all over TX)
www.globalbeatz.net (pretty much the same as above)
www.dallasdancemusic.com (dallas scene)
www.houstonbeats.com (houston scene)
and a few others scattered here and there.